So in case anyone cares, here’s what success I’ve had so far…
I removed everything eclipse from my machine, installed the latest 3.2.1 from eclipse.org, installed the MyEclipse plug-ins (instead of the stack), and when I looked at Help/About…/Plugins – viola! The gef was 3.2.1xxxx and so was pde.ui. Since all the pre-reqs were there the update went smoothly. I did a File/New/Other and JBoss Rules was there!
Now I just need to figure out where to go from there…
🙂